Introduction

Life, in itself is an enormous process of change management. We grow from Infancy to Childhood to adolescent to being adult. On relations front, now we have parents. We now have relatives. We get in touch with many individuals; work together with some folks and then we make few pals, some as Professional Mates and few as Social Buddies however there's one and only one (lately, I can use the time period "few") individual in our life to whom we promise our life-lengthy commitment. We wish to spend remainder of our life with this person. Before making such dedication, we want to be double certain of ourselves. We seek the advice of all our friends and family members before making such commitment. Those are the decisions that we like to take as soon as and only as soon as in our life and we do not want to remorse these selections within the later stage of our life. If we take a fallacious resolution or make a improper choice, it haunts us for the rest of our life.

So, what are the parameters or factors that one considers or retains in thoughts earlier than accepting the proposal of Awesome Surprise Marriage Proposal!!? What goes of their mind when someone proposes them? How do they put together themselves earlier than proposing someone?

Some Frequent Parameters and Factors

Being a friend with someone of opposite gender is one thing. One also can go for dating. But, marrying someone and making a life-lengthy dedication is altogether a distinct thing. Men and women have totally different standards and parameters which they consider and consider while accepting the wedding proposal. Then, these parameters are in numerous order of precedence and differ from male-to-male and female-to-female. I spoke to some individuals across India to find out what parameters they consider before making a life lengthy dedication to someone? Hence, these parameters reflect Indian Culture and thinking sample of Indian Folks, significantly Indian Youths.

Parameters for Males

Males consider following parameters earlier than making a life long dedication to a female.

1. Looks, options and other bodily attributes

2. Respect for his dad and mom and relatives

3. Character and Values of lady

4. Social - Status of the household

5. Monetary Standing of the family

6. Past of the lady

7. Education

8. Emotional Stability

9. Have to be willing to take-up household duties

10. Ought to support him in all conditions and circumstances

11. Considering the current financial scenario...she is predicted to be an expert

(Order of Preference may fluctuate from Male-to-Male)

We discussed this with many individuals and tried to know and perceive their views and ideas on this. A few of the responses from Males are as follows:

1) Raphael Gilbert (Consultant at Modis International): From my expertise, commitment from a girl depends upon her age.

1) Under 25 - Dedication is predicated purely on looks. They fall in love simply but frankly are solely interested in having fun/quick term commitments that "typically" lead nowhere.

2) Over 25 - Once a girl has had sufficient 'enjoyable' they gradually start to realize that they want children - a household and many others, and admittedly the guys they considered fun are under no circumstances a superb position-model. They start to alter their priorities from looks... to wage bundle/stability/profession prospects and secondly (and this is mostly a should) a sense of humor (as if they can not have the seems to be they need a man who can no less than make them chortle!). It's a sad but true fact - however they accept us guys thinking (Effectively he is probably not Tom Hanks however no less than I'll have a great life/cash/a nice family and I wont be alone).

This sadly, is true for I might say eighty% of women. I'm fairly fortunate and have discovered the lady of my desires who VERY luckily for me doesn't fall into this category, however, I problem any lady to inform me I'm incorrect!